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Wendy's Approach

The combination of Wendy Boorn's many years of education, post-graduate training, and professional experience enables her to be highly effective at treating a wide variety of issues. By the time people seek professional help for their personal problems, they are usually feeling discouraged and even hopeless. Boorn takes very seriously the power of her position and does everything possible to provide an emotionally safe and nurturing environment in which growth and change can flourish. She offers hope because she believes in people's ability to evolve and change.

Boorn calls her treatment approach holistic systems therapy, meaning that she sees her clients not just in terms of their psychological makeup, but holistically, as the sum total of the parts of body, mind and spirit. Together with her clients, she assesses strengths and deficits in each of these domains.

She also sees her clients in context, as part of various systems, which might include:

Intimate partnership
Family
School
Religious institution
Neighborhood
Workplace
Family of origin

All of these systems are continually influencing and being influenced by her clients. Boorn believes that, as any one person in a system begins to change, the entire system will begin to change. Therefore, by working with just one person, she can help bring about change in a strained relationship between a mother and an adult child or between a husband and wife.

Boorn describes her therapeutic style as gentle, yet challenging. Her approach is direct and interactive, yet respectful and kind. Possible treatment techniques are much less important to her than is the quality of her relationship with her clients, for she believes that it is the relationship itself which becomes the agent for change.

She cares deeply about her clients and believes fiercely in their ability to create for themselves the kind of life that they yearn for. She sees herself not as a distant expert, but rather as a hands-on guide, teacher, and encourager. She envisions the therapeutic relationship as a partnership which she enters into with energy and enthusiasm. Wendy Boorn's ultimate goal is to teach her clients how to be their own therapists and not need her anymore.

For more information about Wendy Boorn's counseling practices, please email her at comfort@mothersofadultchildren.com.

For more information about her coaching services , click here.

It is the inhuman expectation of perfection in our society that causes mothers to suffer in silence.

We believe that we can avoid censure or pity only if we have raised perfect children with no problems.

And so we pretend that our children have made successful and easy transitions into adulthood, complete with exciting careers, financial independence, and stable and loving partners.

For most of us this is a dream, not a reality.

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